This last week has been kind of strange. Except for the October Holiday when my Mom was here and we traveled to
The weirdest--and most surreal--part of the past week has been the "flat-earth" syndrome I've been experiencing. I don't always agree with Thomas Friedman, who seems to be an uncritical cheerleader for American-style globalization, but he does make catchy phrases, and the earth really is "flat" for some people. It certainly has been flat for me this last week. Since August, my teaching duties and travels have kept me place-bound and rooted in the present moment. Yes, I was emailing and Skyping (which itself is kind of dis-orienting, excuse the pun), but I was largely isolated from the American news cycle. I was living in
All that seemed to change last week for a couple primary (excuse the pun again) reasons: first the caucuses and then the playoffs. I am both a political junkie and a football junkie.
It was thus comforting to be pulled back into the here and now by taking ping-pong lessons this past week. I was invited to play ping-pong by Jong Shu Hui (Nancy), one of the teachers in the English department here at IMNU.
It's been pretty fun so far, although rigorous. Not at all like having a couple beers and playing ping-pong with your buddies. Most of it has entailed a thorough de-programming of all my previous ping-pong experience, which consisted primarily of playing ping-pong in the basement with my sisters as a child. Sweeping away all my bad habits has been really hard. The back-hand (the only stroke I've been allowed to use so far) taught to me by Ping-Pong Teacher Li is so dramatically different from what I've done before. If I do it correctly (which happens about one out of every 10 strokes), I'm hitting the ball on the bottom of the paddle when my paddle is parallel to the table. My brain keeps insisting that it is impossible to get the ball over the net doing this, so it's been struggle to overcome this mental conditioning.
Ping-Pong Teacher Li tells me to keep my center of gravity low; to crouch, knees bent, on the balls of my feet, ready to spring like a caged lion; to hold the paddle loosely with all my fingers except my index finger and thumb; to pivot at the waist as my arm comes forward; to extend my arm forward and flick my wrist to finish the stroke; and to keep my mind clear and my muscles relaxed.
There are so many things to think about--my stance, my grip, my posture, the mechanics of each stroke--that "relaxation" and mental clarity are nearly impossible.
If I really work on mechanics and don't worry about hitting the ball over the net, I sometimes take a really good stroke. I can feel it. On those strokes, Ping Pong Teacher Li gives me the thumbs up. The rest of the time, he quietly demonstrates where I should be holding the paddle and how I should be flicking my wrist.
Ping-Pong Teacher Li with his meiguoren (American) student. This guy has a tremendous amount of patience. He plays a lot of ping-pong, drinks a lot of tea, and smokes a lot of cigarettes.
Ping-Pong Teacher Li is in his early sixties. He grew up in
During one of the many tea breaks we take while playing, I asked
Truth is, Chinese people don't like speaking openly to foreigners about such issues. And yet, I have heard others openly criticize the Cultural Revolution, so I figured it was a fair question. A common refrain is that Mao was "70 percent right and 30 percent wrong," and it's pretty clear that the Cultural Revolution falls into the latter category.
"People still respect Mao," she answered. "Teacher Li still respects Mao."
"I know people respect Mao," I said. "He built the country and liberated
She admitted that Teacher Li's generation was
She went on to explain that Teacher Li and his wife will continue working for a few more years but hope to retire soon and begin receiving benefits from the state.
I hazarded another controversial question. "Isn't the social safety net declining? Isn't the pension system inadequate?" I asked. I have read that China's social safety net is largely eroded--that China, a "communist" country, cannot (or does not) provide its people with as much social insurance (pensions, healthcare, unemployment insurance, free education) as Western countries, even including the United States.
"You know half of our country lives in the countryside," she said. "And they live in horrible conditions." She told me that Chinese people like herself feel for the poor peasants and hope their situation will improve.
"We have the resources to help the peasants" she said. "But the government wastes an incredible amount of money." She went on to tell me about huge banquets where government officials waste food and luxury cars driven by corrupt party operatives. "The government helps build the country but it also wastes our resources."
This launched us into a conversation about the Communist Party and the one-party state generally. "Government corruption is a problem in all nations," I said. "Without opposition parties, a free press, and the right for citizens to protest and organize then it is really hard to hold governments accountable."
She agreed. "There are other parties. There is not just one party." she explained. "But all the other parties are still controlled by the Communist Party."
"The Chinese people don't always like the Communist Party, but it is impossible for us to have a government like yours. Even people in the government know it is corrupt, but it is too hard to change it because no one can oppose the party. If you want to live comfortably you have to play by the rules. We all participate in corruption because it is the only way to get ahead."
The room was cool. We were starting to get cold. Ping Pong Teacher Li was finished with his tea and cigarette. It was time to play ping-pong again.
It is hard to believe that much will change in a country where most people--in spite of the disasters of the Cultural Revolution and the Great Leap Forward--still do not openly criticize the legacy of Mao. It does feel like most people in
As we were leaving on our bicycles,
"But society has made him a thief," she said. "His environment is responsible for his behavior." Our answers reflected the stereotypical ideologies of our respective nations--my knee-jerk individualism and her default environmental determinism.
"Maybe it is both environment and personal choice," I offered. We left it at that.
Yesterday at lunch I told the story of the famous 1971 Ping-Pong Diplomacy to Samuel and Grace . I became unexpectedly emotional and my voice started to crack as I tried to explain the significance of "the ping heard round the world," as Time magazine called it. An innocent exchange of good will and gifts between American and Chinese athletes (whose dreams were much more modest) sparked the most important moment in modern US-Sino relations--and one of the most important moments for modern world history. I especially got choked up describing how the US Ping-Pong team passed from Hong Kong to mainland
I'm looking forward to more ping-pong and more conversations this week--to continuing my own modest and less consequential brand of ping-pong diplomacy. I'm also looking forward to finally getting that back-hand stroke down and perhaps, if Ping-Pong Teacher Li allows it, trying out my forehand.
At the end of the week--after
Thanks for reading.
Dave
2 comments:
Am I to believe that my days of unequaled ping-pong supremacy - forged in the hallowed backyard on Hillsboro -- are numbered???? Where is my paddle?!!! And how does one track down a Chinese ping-pong instructor with 25 years' experience without actually being in China......??
Wallace, I'm going to crush you in ping-pong when I return stateside--if we can find a table. And I'll do it all with my back-hand, because Ping-Pong Teacher Li hasn't taught me forehand yet. Or how to serve. Better start training!
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